Are you only a daughter by birth, or have you been installed in the office of daughter? These articles describe the process for entering the office.
Think of the difference between a birth daughter and a foster child. Both have the same level of food, clothing, housing, medical care and education, yet the foster child knows that there is a fundamental difference in her relationship with the family.
Many birth daughters have always felt like a foster child in their birth home. Even though you are an adult and have left home, there is work that needs to be done to this foundational office in life.